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    面子與認錯
    來源:    時間:2013/2/14    閱讀:6079次

    作者:馬未都


      
      明朝萬歷年間有個叫呂坤的人,進士及第,從知縣做到刑部侍郎。按說官也不算小了,但他總覺得在朝廷中不得志,于是稱病辭歸,閉門著書。他最有名的著作就是«呻吟語»,洋洋大觀,今日讀之仍覺通篇哲理,讓人欽佩其思想通達。例如,他說:“有過是一過,不肯認過又是一過;一認則兩過都無,一不認則兩過不免。”道理說得多簡單明了,辦法結論都告訴你了,那我們犯了錯誤還有什么理由回避,甚至信誓旦旦作回天無力的辯解呢?
      
      在我們的傳統文化中,面子的確很值錢,認錯改過很傷面子,但不認錯不僅傷了面子,還傷骨子。與其里外都傷,不如傷外保里。其實公眾大都通情達理,自古至今,沒有人去糾纏一個聞過則改的人。
      
      孫燁摘自«戀愛婚姻家庭»
      
      


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